Never trust a person especially girls with your heart,use your brain in love.
Hello friends.
Today i am going to share with you the advice which can save you from hooking up with a wrong girl .Even if you feel that you are the smartest and most intelligent person in this planet and nobody can fool you when it comes to trusting a person and her loyal heart,believe me u,r wrong my friend.It would be best for you to first of all realize that we all are human beings and we can be wrong (most of the times) so always be deep rooted and do not follow your six sense or heart thinking that you cannot be wrong in judging your partner as u had many other relationships and you know how girls are and this one is what you were looking for USE YOUR BRAIN.
Things to do while testing a girls approach towards you. (If you really want to be happy in your life and don,t want to loose your trust in love).
1.The most lovely part in a relationship and most memorable one too is when both starts to know each other slowly ,each day,each hour.Knowing each other believe me is the most important part in a relationship because you got to know things about yourself too ,about your humor,about your anger,about your true nature not all your partners nature.WARNING-Don,t ever assume that you now know this girl 100 percent and better then she knew herself.If u re doing this you are going in a wrong track because in future u,ll get to know why i am saying this if u are in a wrong relationship.Always admire yourself that you are a right guy for her and not she is a best girl for me.
2.Know her past relationships-Always be sure that you know her past if u really want to be in a right relationship.Two things are common in most girls past
.1.Having an ex boyfriend OR
2.Having a so called best friend whom she actually loves but never tells anyone.
a.If she,s having an ex boyfriend it is really fine,everyone have a past relationships ,this thing doesnt matter at all but the thing which matters the most is if she,s looking in you just as a support system to move on from her past relationship and using all possible ways to make you feel believe that she,s in love with you but actually you are person for him which she will be calling in future A Mistake.So make sure that you are not been used by that girl and she actually loves you and only you now.
b.Having a so called best friend whom she actually loves but never tells anyone-Friends these girls are most dangerous creatures god has ever made and the guy who is stuck in a relationship with these girls is most likely to be going in a wrong track and only god can save him if he,s not smart enough to understand that why is she giving her so much time.The thing which is easy to be traced out in these girls is that the,ll talk about her best friend with you most of the time during a conversation,His best friend likes,his dislikes,how they met,how he came to drop her etc and in most cases her so called best friend will have a nickname for example LADDU .The guy who is right now in a relationship with that girl will think that how lovely she is,she,s sharing her all feelings with her,she trusts her so much but in reality she is making a fool out of him,she is just telling him these all things for her own happiness and self motivation and using a guy as a support system .
3.Always keep a track of records of your conversation with her and do not delete a single chat or voice call in your cell phone voice recorder because these are the only things which will help you to proof her what was she saying in a past and what she is saying now.Because in most cases girls will edit the part in which they are most likely to get caught what they actually said in past if u are in a wrong relationship.
4.Do not trust and love anyone blindly more than you love yourself- Friends if u are with the girls i have mentioned above it will be like a hell for you in future so its better to put an end to this relationship at a right time,,do not carry forward it with you because you are a loyal person and that girl will surely get what she deserves from god and karma,I know it will be a very very hard decision for you to take but for your own happiness and good future always take this step of ending the relation because if u do not end it now it will surely be ended in future when her best friend comes back in her life or if she found out a better looking guy than you and in some cases more wealthy guy,seeing this and feeling all this will leave u shattered so the best way is to end it as quickly as possible.
5.Do not give anyone your precious time more than they deserve-In a wrong relationship guys give their whole time to girls their day and night even when they have their own work to do the,ll leave that work and chat with the girl or meet her.Guys don,t know that actually what she is doing is in her free time after office hours sh,es chatting without even bothering whether guy has some work to do or not or if he is actually free,they just want to use their time selling her emotions to a guy who is in deep love with her but she,s not and the strange thing is after knowing all this also a guy keeps on wasting his precious time for that girl who is actually using her and that girl is just telling him what she did whole day and all these topics just waiting for her time of sleep to come and then saying bye go to hell now in her mind and this process continues long time.
6.Lastly one thing what a guy should do is to find out himself what the girl actually knows about him,,his likes,dislikes all his qualities after spending so much time together,If she really loves him she will know every single thing about him ,things which he himself doe not knew about his nature and all.Always be true to yourself when asking her to tell her about him,,what she knows about him because its a bit weird question to ask but it,s a most important question if a girl is right for him.
BE BOLD BE BRAVE AND MOST IMPORTANT LOYAL TO YOURSELF WHEN YOU WANT TO KNOW IF SHE IS A RIGHT GIRL FOR YOU.